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STDs to my wife

Dear doctors,
I did cunnilingus and protected vaginal sex (using condom correctly and consistently) with a girl who has unknown STD condition twice. I wonder if I can still have unprotected sex with my wife without transferring any potential STDs to her? I was health before but not sure if the intercourse with the girl was safe. If not, what kind of test should I take before I can have unprotected sex with wife? For how many days should I wait? Thanks.
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I forget to mention that my cunnilingus to her is not protected and she also did protected fellatio to me.
Hi, protected vaginal sex is a risk for herpes and syphilis as is the oral and testing for these would be recommened before being intimate with your wife.

herpes--- 3 months post exposure
syohilis--- 6 weeks
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Without knowing what STD your partner had, it's impossible to answer this question.

I agree with Life360 - you should get tested. While cunnilingus is lower risk than vaginal, you still have a risk for syphilis and gonorrhea. Even with protected sex, you have a risk for syphilis, HPV and herpes.
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