Hi, I am looking for some advice
Middle of Feb this year I received unprotected oral from a CSW.
Within a few days just after masturbation I had a slight tingling down the side of the shaft and around the corona briefly
I thought nothing of it but 3 weeks later whilst walking the tip of my penis (the meatus) started to rub on my underwear causing it to sting. I am circumcised but have never experienced this before. Upon changing underwear when I got home from work it stopped, a few days later with the same underwear on again the tip of my penis started to become really irritated, I changed underwear which stopped it. (underwear had a central seam)
Since this the glans were becoming easily irritated after masturbation
I have a small red spot on the corona which seems to come and go
The main issues... The meatus is red and the skin is irritated but it can change colour hour by hour. Sometimes it appears scaly, sometimes like rope burn
I have no pain to urinate but occasionally after ejaculation it stings a bit
My urine seems to be darker than usual and smells
The edge of the meatus seems to have become irritated and has flared up, sometimes on one side or the other creating lip, but also in the morning both sides are inflamed like 2 lips. It appears puffy
I havent noticed any discharge as such, a little watery substance in the mornings following an erection but i think this is normal?
Then around April time my throat began to feel different, almost like a throbbing more noticeable on the left hand side and noticeably worse when outdoors in colder temperatures
Also around April time my face (cheeks mostly) have turnt red and feel sore and have been permanently like this from the moment i wake up and it is showing no signs of improvement.
My upper chest is red and rough to touch, with a light rash/spots
All of the issues with the meatus still exist
In terms of doctors and treatment
I have done urine tests for Chlamydia and Gonorrhea (carried out at sti clinic and also via only testing kit)
Hiv/Syphillis fingerprick test done at 6 weeks
Hiv finger prick test done at 11 weeks
Hometesting kit for Mycroplasma/ureplasma, chlamydia gonorrhea done post 12 weeks
All of these have been negative
I have not had my uretha swabbed but feel this would be worth doing so incase it is NSU and if it is does my current sexual partner need to be informed?
Doctor prescribed Hydrocortisone/Canesten cream which i applied for 3 weeks with no improvement.
Any advice on this would be really appreciated as it has taken up alot of my time, not sure if Anxiety could cause the visible symptoms on the penis?
Your help/advice is greatly appreciated