Heres my situation please help:
On 4/19 and 4/22 received protected oral from 2 asian escort in vegas and finish with hand job. My concern is they both licked/sucked my scrotum. I could not see oral mouth sores but might have looked like dry lips.
On 4/30 noticed 1 pimple on bottom of scrotum. This pimple is in follicle with long pubic hair. I squeezed it and some clear/blood liquid came out. Pimple wasnt really sore but was a little sensitive when found.
On 5/9 visited dermatologist and he gave me some acne cream (adapalene and benzoyl peroxide) to put on. I was worried it was hpv but he said no.
From 5/11 to 5/19 scrotum where pimple found was clammy, sticky, itchy, and icy/hot sensation (stress of hsv 1 kicked in). Im assumed it was the acne cream.
I call dermatologist on 5/19 and very concerned. He calls in doxycycline 100 mg for 10 days and finish on 5/29.
On 5/26 i go back to dermatologist panicking so he takes swab for herpes test.
On 5/30 herpes swab test normal. Pimple sore just about healed, now feels like small scar tissue lump under skin.
1. Could this be syphilis? Pimple was noticed about 10-12 days after encounters. It never turned into a crater looking chancre seen on internet (maybe because i squeezed it?). Would a chancre sore on scrotum look similar to chancre on shaft of penis? Looked like a larger hair follicle with long pubic hair. Currently it healed but still can feel slight bump like scar tissue under skin.
2. Because i finished doxycycline and found out this is treatment for syphilis can i still find out if i contracted syphilis? Would there be antibodies showing recent/past infection? Do i have to wait to test since i just finished doxy on 5/29?
3. Wife gave me oral 3 times. She sucked my testicles on 4/28 where pimple was noticed on 4/30. Other 2 times only the penis.
4. Do you think i have a legit concern or stressing for nothing. Im wondering if i should just tell wife my stupid mistake so she can get tested. But risk of losing my marriage for something i may not have. I thought was i did was safe.
Please help. Thanks