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Handjob from stripper with saliva

To make a long story short, I made horrible mistake 3 days ago while extremely intoxicated. I was at my best friends bachelor party and we went to a strip club. While at the strip club in the backroom, the stripper pulled out my penis, spit on it and masturbated me with her hands. I feel terrible about it. I have a wife of 5 years and a 2 year old daughter. I already told my wife and went to doctors to get a baseline test.

What is the risk I contracted a STD or Herpes? Mostly concerned about herpes and giving anything to my wife or DAUGHTER. I could really use some expertise on this. I have been extremely freaked out and on edge the past 3 days. My anxiety is off the charts. My wife thinks changes are low unless came into contact with a sore or something. Any advice? When should I go back for testing?
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Chances are in your favor as this is considered low risk. Realistically only hsv1 is a possibility and that's a low chance as well. Do you know if you already have hsv1? Every had a cold sore? If so it's highly unlikely for it to spread to your genitals. Many recommend against testing due to possibility of false positives but for me i would get a baseline igg test to see if i already have type 1. You can keep an eye out for blisters on the coming 2 to3 weeks and retest @12-16 weeks if you truly desire. But i doubt anything will become of this encounter
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I really appreciate your response. I went to get a baseline 2 days after it happened. I don’t think I have HSV1 as I can’t reall ever having a cold sore. Part of the reason I’m freaked out. I didn’t see anything on her or any blood in the spit but it was dark and I was drunk. I had all my clothes on and my penis was through my zipper hole. She was covered in her private areas as well. So the only contact was my erect penis and her hands and saliva.
Ya that's all low risk. Even if you've never had a cold sore there's a good chance you have hsv1 from childhood,i myself never had an OB until i had a lip injury and was quite shocked to discover i had it but a conservative estimate of those who have hsv1 is as low as 50% to 80%. And if you already have it orally it's very unlikely to get it genitally
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