Hello~I am sorry you are having all these issues.
I am afraid I can not be of much help in this area, we do, however, have a great men's health forum and one even for STD's. I will refer you to one of those groups.
I hope you get the help you are looking for soon. God bless you. Merry Christmas.
Your post reminds me of the story of this person looking for the lost keys outside the house under the street light, when the keys were originally lost inside the house!
Why was he looking for his keys there?
...because, there was no electricity in the house, so it was
too dark to look in the house.
You need to shed some more light on your health condition to see that the multiple rounds of antibiotics exasperated a yeast imbalance and/or perhaps a localized yeast infection, which developed into Candida, a systemic yeast/fungal overgrowth infection.
Your thrash and most of your other symptoms are likely due to Candida. STDs by now would have shown more related worsening symptoms to my opinion.
I recommend you take some probiotics of the highest quality you can afford, use Selsun Blue daily to wash entire body, do a strict anticandida diet and use coconut
oil orally, topically and to do "oil pulling" (vigorous swishing using 1 teaspoon of coconut oil, for 15-20 minutes, first thing in the morning and then spitting it out
and rinsing real good afterwards)
It will likely take time to resolve, possibly months, so please be patient and adhere to the plan.
And no alcohol, no sugars, no deserts, no white flour, no stress!
It's tough to do, so be tough with yourself and just do it!
I hope this helps, however, my comments are not intended to replace medical advice.
Coconut oil liquefies over 23 Celsius.
Oral thrush is not considered contagious, however,
fungal/yeast organisms can be passed to the other person.
Normally this would not be an issue though, since these organisms are already in the body, usually in controlled numbers.
Anti-fungal cream application after a full body Selsun Blue
shampoo (leave lather on for a few extra minutes) daily!