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Hi, I am of Asian descent and been in US since 13 years. I had no knowledge of what STD's are and always thought if anyone has anything, they would get symptoms. I am learning better through this forum. I have following questions.

1. I do not have any symptoms now and never had in past.

2. My last 2 encounters were with same guy. He claims to be gay but do not engage in anal sex and repeats he is very clean. I had encounter 1 week ago and 1 month ago with him. I did ejaculate in his mouth and did suck him for  15-20 seconds. He is Caucasian in his late 60's. What is the risk? I did not find any sores on his mouth or penis.

3. I had unprotected vaginal sex 4 times -the last one was 2 years ago , before that 4 years ago, only 1 encounter with 4 different ladies. They told me they are clean. We never met again. These are not SW. These are regular Caucasian  housewives , working women with early 40's.

4. Received unprotected oral sex from Gay men, 8 to 10, mostly claim they do not engage in anal sex. Everyone told me that they did not have anything and were very clean. Since I did not know much , I went with belief that oral might not hurt.  

5. Since I have no symptoms, I understand I might need STD testing, going to schedule one soon since some of the STD's can be asymptotic. But what are my chances with STD's and HIV.

6. I put same question under Herpes community by mistake, so putting it in right forum. Sorry about that.
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Hi giving and recieving oral sex is considered low risk and with no lip sores or genital sores close to zero risk.
3. with no symptoms like a white puss penis discharge, buring while urinating or genital sores appearing about a week later you can  comfortably conclude you did not contract anything but only testing would confirm this.

4.recieving is low risk.
5. for hiv, a male female relationship falls into a low risk catagory.
6. with herpes, with no lip or genital sores at the time is close to zero. risk.
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Thanks shareenv and Life360_Dave
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Always wear a condom even tho I know some guys don't like wearing them u always should even if the girl is clean they can be lying expessally If u don't know them personally ! Symptoms take awhile to come up. Same with tests !! HIV is an std n it'll be easyer to catch HIV if u have herpes. Just in case go to the doctors and get tested
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