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Help !!! i really need you doctores to help me answering my Concerns

Hi, Doctor
i appreciate what you all doing in this website and i apology in advance if my question sounds silly . 2 days ago, i went to a strip club and had a lap dance with a girl . She was putting her bikini on and my jeans and boxers were on as well all the time during the lap dance. The girl , rapped her body on me , and she set in my lap . I did touch her breasts, but I never gave/received oral sex, i never penetrated her vagina with my hand, i did not finger her, did not touch her vagina. But I did touch the rest of her body (example , touched breasts, touched buttocks, stomach, hair). She did not touch my penis
I think during the lap dance and after I was touching her body I touched or whipped my lips and mouth . im not sure but i was worried if i would catch an HIV cause of that .. i mean .. Would it be that by touching her breasts, buttocks, stomach, hair would transmit it to my hand after I touch my mouth or lips would transfere  to me . also, i want to say that during the lap dance i did not ejaculate or see anything on the surface of my jeans, it was all normal .

im really worried to death ... it was my first time going to a strip club . please answer my concerns
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Doctor, i am very worried. I tested 95 days after an enounter i had of unprotected anal sex.  The blodwork said i was positive with high reaction for syphllis. The HIV test was negative and it was 95 days after the exposure. Should i take another HIV test because many people are saying syphllis can interfere with HIV testing and also i was drinking due to depression from this encounter. I had a rash for 3 weeks and night sweats than came the cankers and no one can explain why i had the rash before the canker sores. Pleaqse help i am so worried.
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Thanks a lot , Doctor Jose
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1024580 tn?1331574121
No risk at all of contracting an STD whatosever.  You might contract, if anything, acute conjunctivitis, but nothing else.  Honestly no need to worry anymore,please.
Best wishes, Dr Jose
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One last question , Doctor . Is touching my eyes during the lap dance would transmit any STDs
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Thank you Doctor for your quick reply
But , i just was worried that her body parts like her buttocks from someone else before me or something are containing her fluid and by touching it and touching my lips might transmit it . I start panicking that i might have some scratches on the inside of my lips and that it might get its way to my body though those scratches on the inside side of my lips . Another thing, i heard that blemishes is a sign of that disease and i do have a problem with blemishes on my chest and on my back . But that problem im having is for quite long period before that incident. Is there a way to double make sure that i didn’t catch any of the STDs. Is there anything I could do to relax from all that .. is there any earlier signs I might have
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Thank you Doctor for your quick reply
But , i just was worried that her body parts like her buttocks from someone else before me or something are containing her fluid and by touching it and touching my lips might transmit it . I start panicking that i might have some scratches on the inside of my lips and that it might get its way to my body though those scratches on the inside side of my lips . Another thing, i heard that blemishes is a sign of that disease and i do have a problem with blemishes on my chest and on my back . But that problem im having is for quite long period before that incident. Is there a way to double make sure that i didn’t catch any of the STDs. Is there anything I could do to relax from all that .. is there any earlier signs I might have
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Hello there,
Thanks very much for your post.  I am afraid that you are worrying and panicking too much about absolutely nothing.  You need to do a little bit more than just touching someone's body in order to contract any kind of Sexually transmitted Disease.  Don't even think of HIV please!! They are called Sexually Transmitted Infections, because they can be transmitted through some type of sexual intercourse.  Therefore you need to have some type of sex with the other individual.  Touching someone's body and then touching your lips is not going to have you anything.
Try to relax and forget about it.  Worrying so much about nothing is really not helpful and a total waste of tiem and energy!
Best wishes,
Dr Jose
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