I gave a guy a blowjob on 9/3 and within 48 hours of the event have been feeling continuously unwell. Symptoms:
Oral Sex Monday night 9/3
Tuesday felt OK
Wednesday afternoon worsening nausea and slight abdominal pain
Thursday - day off work, tired, sore joints, nausea still bad, constipation and problem urinating, slight headache, slight sore throat. Glands feel a tiny bit hard to the touch, and perhaps a tiny bit enlarged (neck). Abdominal pain worsening, but it's not really delicate to the touch when placing some force with my hands in the abdominal area.
Friday - back to work, still tired, nausea still present but not as strong, constipation and urinating problems persist (weaker urine stream than usual). Sore joints not as bad. Still lethargic.
Saturday - much like Friday, but nausea a bit worse, but not as bad as Wednesday/Thursday. Sore joints gone
Sunday - Felt OK. Bowel and urine movements a bit better, but I was drinking more water. It's possible that my constipation problems etc were due to not drinking enough water (I suffer from both IBS and Type 2 diabetes).
Monday - return to nauseaville and a stronger headache in the temple areas. Urinating is better as I'm drinking my normal 2L of water per day.
Tuesday - wake up to what feels like a head cold, which worsen throughout the day.
Wednesday (today) - another day off work, throat feels sore today, the most sore it's been since the oral sex episode. Masturbated and felt that there was a very slight Reddish tinge to my precum.
no rash present, no white sores in throat/mouth/no blistering visible. No fever present. I have an unusually low body temperate (usually around 36.1), but since feeling unwell, it's been in the 35s and even as low as 34.9 (last night). I haven't noticed any discharge from my penis.
It almost feels like a stomach bug, cold and bladder infection all wrapped in one, with a headache on top of it all. The headache hasn't really been bad except for Monday 16/3. It's more like a slight nuisance headache than anything (I suffer from migraines, so normal headaches don't really phase me these days).
I haven't had any blood tests yet as I think it's too early. I presume that suffering from Diabetes type 2, and having a weakened immune system due to being highly stressed might mean that any STD would affect me earlier than the average healthy human. I was going to leave it to the 6 week mark to get tested for all STDs, since many probably won't show up so early on (it's only been just over a week). I'm suspecting hep a/bc/hiv. The guy says he's clean and was recently tested and isn't really active in the male/male scene, he doesn't do anal (which I don't either) and has only engaged in guys giving him oral. I understand that STD transmission during oral sex is generally lower than vaginal or anal sex, but I do also have dental issues (gingervitis and gum bleeding) that might make it easier for viruses to get into my system that way.
Any advice appreciated.