I’m in quite a deep anxiety and really need help on my situation. Since English isn’t my native language, sorry if there’s any confusing made.
I went to a massage parlour few days ago, and got massage from a lady both naked (but she got her underpants on during the whole session).
Before the massage started, we went showered together. She then masturbate me for a 1-2 minutes then gave me an oral sex ONLY(protected with condom on the whole time) at the end, no any other sexual activity occurred, she also didn’t licked any other parts of me besides my nipple. I’m pretty sure that the condom hasn’t leaked or broken after I ejaculated. She took of my condom after I ejaculate and wiped my penis with tissues afterwards.
I also couldn’t see any bleeding wounds or cuts on her body or hands, but not sure if there’re any lesion inside her mouth.
I’ve called and ask the local HIV association and also consulted a doctor these days. The local HIV consultant told me that I’m in an extremely low risk on stds and about zero risk for HIV. But on the other hand the doctor I consulted said there’re risks in any acts, a condom will lower my risk but still risky, oral sex will also have a risk to transmit HIV.
Here will be my concerns:
1) Will I be at risks for any stds (especially HIV and Syphilis) in this act? Do I need to get tested just based on this act?
2) I know it’s a quite crazy question, but if assuming that there’s sperm from previous customers or virus inside the showering gel or on the tissue, will there be a chance that I’ll get infected?
3) just want to know is oral sex a low risk act on transmitting stds? And how lower the chances will be if I used a condom correctly?
4) Is there any cases happened before that are similar to me and got infected?
I know I’m really dumb and shouldn’t make any mistakes like that, and I’ll promise not to be involved in any acts with strangers again in the future. I’m really stressed out these days and need help on this issue, my questions might be long, it please help answering in more details. Sorry for being annoyed.