Congratulations to you and your GF on your entire approach to this. Your discussions with one another, your decision to get tested and hr vaccination are all the right things to do. So, what to do about her ASCUS?
First, HPV is so widespread that I can safely say that nearly everyone has it. It is highly probable that each of you has had HPV infections in the past. I say this by way of reassurance and to tell you that there are good ways to work this out. It is not currently known for sure if her ASCUS is HPV-related or not - a substantial proportion is not. Even if it is HPV related, in all likelihood it will resolve on its own, through the action of her own immune system. If it does not, then she needs follow-up with her GYN in much the same way that she has already started. So, in answer to your questions:
1. Are warts likely to develop? - No, your reading is correct.
2. Would visible warts have shown up on her by now. Yes, most probably.
3. Do you need to cease intimacy?- no.
4. Is oral sex safe. Yes. There is occasional oral transmission of HPV, if present but it is relatively uncommon and consequences are very uncommon.
hope this helps. EWH
I also failed to mention that she has had 2 of the 3 shots of Gardsail. She moved and changed doctors and her current doctor said she was too old to get Gardsail and she never got the third shot. Her second shot was a year ago. Her last pap a year ago was normal. Thanks