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Another stupid moment
Another business trip to Singpore. Business partner took me to geylang district professed how safe it is over there and set me up at a massage parlor.
Unprotected oral sex given and received from female worked for about 5 minutes. I did a lot of spitting and no swallowing, no bleeding from her and do not think she had an orgasm. We then had protected sex with condom intact for entire time.
8 days later now - have a cold (several people in our business meeting had one), sore throat (not that bad), had some bladder cramping (been told I have overactive bladder and have had prosthetitis in the past on several occasions.
No lesions or discharge just the bladder cramping from time to time. Of course with the pain and some tingling down there I now think I have caught every disease known to man.
Curious as to risk from activity above and if I should be tested for HIV (i know a low risk), Herpes, and the any other std and when I should get it?
Staying away from wife for now and leaving on another business trip for 8 days on Wednesday so wondering if I should get tested before I leave.
Unprotected oral sex given and received from female worked for about 5 minutes. I did a lot of spitting and no swallowing, no bleeding from her and do not think she had an orgasm. We then had protected sex with condom intact for entire time.
8 days later now - have a cold (several people in our business meeting had one), sore throat (not that bad), had some bladder cramping (been told I have overactive bladder and have had prosthetitis in the past on several occasions.
No lesions or discharge just the bladder cramping from time to time. Of course with the pain and some tingling down there I now think I have caught every disease known to man.
Curious as to risk from activity above and if I should be tested for HIV (i know a low risk), Herpes, and the any other std and when I should get it?
Staying away from wife for now and leaving on another business trip for 8 days on Wednesday so wondering if I should get tested before I leave.
MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL
No, bladder cramps would not be an expected sign of an STD of any sort. EWH
Thanks Doc. Would the cramping bladder be a sign of the a bacterial std or would I need a discharge in addition? The cramping light and not causing me severe painIf by chance (i know small) I did get oral ghonorrhea can that be spread via vaginal sex?
Appreciate the quick answers and actuall reaching out for addiction help. As mentioned in my past posts I clearly have a problem;.
Appreciate the quick answers and actuall reaching out for addiction help. As mentioned in my past posts I clearly have a problem;.
MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL
You seem to be developing a pattern here. Travel, exposure, guilt...... I'll try to help.
Among sexual activities, oral sex is relatively low risk. Oral sex is an inefficient way to transmit STDs. The only STD you are realistically at risk for from performance of oral sex is oral gonorrhea and that is rare. When it occurs however, oral gonorrhea is typically asymptomatic and detected only through testing.
As far as receiving oral sex is concerned, of the bacterial STDs only gonorrhea and nongonococcal urethritis (NGU) are transmitted through receipt of oral sex; chlamydia is not and without an obvious sore or lesion on your partner’s mouth, the chances of your getting syphilis and herpes is likewise tiny. If you had gotten gonorrhea or NGU you would have most likely developed symptoms of urethritis (penile infection) by now. Even if your partner had an STD (any STD and it is likely she did not), most exposures do not lead to infection. In your case, if you wish, you could go to your local STD clinic or health care provider to be tested at this time. If you choose to get tested, you should have your throat tested for gonorrhea as well as having a penile swab or urine tested for gonorrhea and NGU.
Hope this helps. At least use condoms on your next trip. It will save you another trip to our Forum. EWH
Among sexual activities, oral sex is relatively low risk. Oral sex is an inefficient way to transmit STDs. The only STD you are realistically at risk for from performance of oral sex is oral gonorrhea and that is rare. When it occurs however, oral gonorrhea is typically asymptomatic and detected only through testing.
As far as receiving oral sex is concerned, of the bacterial STDs only gonorrhea and nongonococcal urethritis (NGU) are transmitted through receipt of oral sex; chlamydia is not and without an obvious sore or lesion on your partner’s mouth, the chances of your getting syphilis and herpes is likewise tiny. If you had gotten gonorrhea or NGU you would have most likely developed symptoms of urethritis (penile infection) by now. Even if your partner had an STD (any STD and it is likely she did not), most exposures do not lead to infection. In your case, if you wish, you could go to your local STD clinic or health care provider to be tested at this time. If you choose to get tested, you should have your throat tested for gonorrhea as well as having a penile swab or urine tested for gonorrhea and NGU.
Hope this helps. At least use condoms on your next trip. It will save you another trip to our Forum. EWH
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Herpes spreads by oral, vaginal and anal sex.
Herpes sores blister, then burst, scab and heal.
STIs are the most common cause of genital sores.
Millions of people are diagnosed with STDs in the U.S. each year.
STDs can't be transmitted by casual contact, like hugging or touching.
Syphilis is an STD that is transmitted by oral, genital and anal sex.
