No, never. I never even heard of such a case among my many colleagues in our HIV/AIDS clinic. Almost all sexually acquired HIV cases occur in people with multiple, repeated, unprotected high risk exposures.
As your comment below indicates, you now realize this question should have been posted on the HIV Prevention forum.
The brief reply is that no, you definitely should not be "crazy worried" over this event. Even if your partner had HIV -- which seems very unlikely -- the chance of female to male HIV transmission averages once for every 2,000 episodes of unprotected vaginal sex. Given the low chance your partner had HIV, that puts the chance you were infected at less than 1 in a million, and you don't need HIV testing on account of this event. But feel free to do that in a few weeks if you will sleep better. In the meantime, you don't need to worry about infecting your wife -- although of course I cannot guarantee anyone isn't infected. And of course there can be no risk to your kids.
No ongoing discussion in this forum. (And I suggest you don't start a new thread in the HIV forum. The reply would be the same and you would just be out another $15.00.)
Regards-- HHH, MD
Hello Dr.
I know you said no ongoing but I just wanted to ask if you've witnessed an infection(s) from what I described?
thx again