I'll answer briefly, but you're asking the most basic of all questions about genital herpes, and I don't have the time to answer them in the detail they deserve. In addition to my replies, do some background reading for fuller understanding. Good sources are at www.ashastd.org, www.westoverheights.com, and www.metrokc.gov/health/apu/std.
1) Of all people with HSV-2 (which is amost always genital), only 90% recognize that they have herpes. However, another 50%--that is, around 60% of the total--actually have subtle or mind symptoms that they just haven't noticed or paid attention to.
2) Yes. Everybody with genital herpes due to HSV-2 has periods of asymptomatic shedding of the virus, i.e. times when the infection is active and can be transmitted, but when the infected person notices nothing wrong.
3) Sometimes a genital outbreak is preceded by a 'prodrome', which can include tingling, discomfort, or shooting pain in the area where the outbreak will occur, or sometimes down a leg. Such symptoms last only 1-2 days, just before the actual oubreak starts. Continuing leg pain or leg pain without genital area blisters/sores is not a herpes symptom.
4) Herpes is diagnosed either of 2 ways. The most accurate is to see a provider when having an outbreak, when the sore(s) can be tesetd for the virus. Second choice is a blood test, which shows whether someone is infected with HSV-1, HSV-2, or both, but says nothing about where in the body the infection is located (mouth, genitals, or anal area).
The risk of catching HSV during any particular exposure, when the partner isn't having symptoms, is low. Among monogamous couples in which only one person has HSV-2, who have unprotected sex an average of 2-3 times per week, herpes is transmitted to 1 in 20 partners each year. That gives a hint about the low risk for any particular exposure such as yours.
Please read the websites noted above, then (but only then) feel free to come back if you still have any brief follow-up questions.
Best wishes-- HHH, MD
i should add i had full testing for all std's besides herpes at 20 days and all were negative.
Thank you for the answers. Checked the sites, they are very helpful. Just a bit confused to your first answer.
Only 90% notice they have herpes? I dont understand why you say only. And I am a bit confused to the additional part where you state 60% dont notice. I have been checking almost everyday and have not noticed anything. I did have a red bump that went away after a day, but I ve read herpes dont usually show in just 1. If you could clarify that first answer that would be great. That is all, thanks for the sufficient reply.
I meant "about 90%". I think I first wrote "only 10% notice symptoms", then changed part of the wording but not the rest. Sorry for any confusion.