About 10 years ago, I had a couple severe outbreaks on the tip and just under the penis head. No blisters, but it was extremely swollen and raw. For about a 3 years now, after sex with my wife or after masturbation, I get 'severe chaffing' on the tip and just under the tip of my penis. It looks like a partial red ring under the head of the penis. After lots of sex, I would get a fissure on the head, it would bleed then scab. Sometimes my penis head would turn to a purplish color. This has not fully healed for about 3 to 4 years now.
I do know now that 10 years ago, I had Oral Lichen Planus (didn't know then, but have known for about 5 years now and this is confirmed clinically by biopsy). This has been chronic for about 10 years and has never fully gone away.
I went to Urology, ID, IM and Derm. 3 herpes select tests over 2 years: All tests HSV 2 negative HSV 1 positive. ID physician then swabbed the red ring around my penis. The ID doctor said the swab was very sensitive and would pick up herpes if it was there. Test negative. I have had a slew of blood tests (hep C, syphilis, HIV, etc). All is fine. The only time my penis has healed was about 9 months ago when I took Acyclovir at 400mg 3 times a day for a month. However, I had sex one time with my wife with insufficient lubrication, and the symptoms returned. I have tried Acyclivor again for 3 months, no luck (very confusing, since it worked the first time). Everyone now thinks that I have genital lichen planus.
When I don't have activity on my penis, it gets better, but never fully heals. Could this be (and is there such thing as) chronic HSV 1 (I am very healthy and not immuocompromised)? Am I allergic to my wife's vagina or have problems with her PH levels? She has not presented with anything ever.