Welcome to our Forum. From what you describe, there appears to be little reason to be concerned about herpes. The fact that there was blood on your penis after intercourse is not a risk factor ofr herpes, nor is it a risk factor for any other STD. In addition, that your symptoms began a day after your encounter is not suggestive of any STD- the typical incubation time for any STD is 3-4 days (and at least 4 days for HSV) and there are NO STDs which cause symptoms beginning within a day of exposure- none! (Itching of the thigh which is intermittent or lasts more than a few hours in the absence of lesions is likewise not a sign of an STD of any sort, including HSV)
A single sexual exposure to a new partner is typically not a terribly high risk event- most people do not have STDs and even when they do, most exposures to infected partners do not result in infection. I suspect that the tests for STDs that have been performed will be negative.
Thus I agree with the doctor that you spoke with that blood in the urine and buring on urination are not typical symptoms of herpes. Blood in the urine is a sign of kidney stones or structural abnormalities of the urinary tract and that the urine test performed at the hospital by the doctor failed to show even microscopic amounts of blood suggests that perhaps what you perceived as blood was something else- concentrated urine or something that you had ingested.
To summarize, you are at low risk for STD from the exposure that you describe and the symptoms you have expereinced are not likely to be due to an STD. Further, whatever is going on has been evaluated by a doctor and was not felt to be emergent (I agree). I would wait for your test results which I expect will be negative and try your best not to worry. I hope that my comments will help you to accomplish this. EWH
Thank you for your quick response, I appreciate it. I will re post if my test results find any abnormalities.