This sounds like a low risk situation and you had negative tests for gonorrhea and chlamydia. I don't understand your concern. To your specific questions:
1) Almost all men with gonorrhea and at least half with chlamydia have symptoms. In any case, the modern tests are entirely reliable. Of course I cannot guarantee you haven't been infected since the earlier relationship ended, e.g. whether your new partner might be infected from a former partner.
2) I cannot comment on the likelihood your partner could have been infected in the past. If she was, it was gone by the time she was tested 3 months ago.
3) Physical exam itself misses most cases of chlamydia or gonorrhea. But that's irrelevant in the face of a negative test.
4) That scenario is unlikely, but not impossible. But like the others, this question seems irrelevant, because of the negative lab tests.
As I said, I don't understand your concern. But if for some reason you remain in doubt, you and your current partner can be tested--by your own health care provider(s), a family planning clinic (like Planned Parenthood), or your local health department STD clinic. You no longer have any responsibility with respect to your former partner and I see no reason for her to be retested.
Good luck-- HHH, MD
Received negative results for Chlamydia and Gonorrhea today. Thanks, much, for your time, Doctor.
I apologize if my writing is confusing. But, I wanted to clarify my situation:
My former gf says she was tested and cleared of most stds (Chlamydia, Gohnorrhea and Syphilis, other bacterial infections) shortly before we met and wasn't exposed to stds afterwards. Her testing comes into question because she claims to only remember a blood test ( and she's certain it wasn't for HIV).
My current gf was tested and cleared of all stds 3 months before we met and wasn't exposed to stds afterwards.
I tested earlier this week for Chlaymydia and Gonorrhea, but the results won't be available until next week.
I guess that you've already answered the my most pressing question, which is how likely we all could be infected for over a year with Chlamydia and/or Gonorrhea and not know it - no likely, but possible.
I just wanted to clarify our circumstances.
OK, now I understand.
Indeed, blood testing alone cannot detect gonorrhea or chlamydia. But I doubt that's all your former partner had. It is not logical that any clinic, free or otherwise, would not include standard gonorrhea and chlamydia tests when checking someone for STD during routine pelvic exams (ie, when she has had her pap tests). In any case, your negative test results are entirely reliable, and as I said, your former partner's sexual health no longer is your concern.
Thank you, sir, for your reply. I was concerned about my former girlfriends STD "testing" because she said she only remembers taking a blood test for STDs at a free clinic (although,it doesn't seem logical that a free clinic in a major metro area would test for Syphilis via blood and not include tests for more common STDs). From prior posts here, it seems that blood tests aren't reliable indicators for Chlamydia infection.
BTW - was tested for Chlamydia and Gonorrhea at a free clinic, but results won't be availbable until a week later.
Also, I think your work is remarkable. Thanks, much. God bless you and the staff there, and Happy Holidays!