I have been married 6 years and I have 2 children, and I have never been unfaithful to my husband and it is extremely unlikely that he's ever been unfaithful to me. Since the birth of my second child (2 years ago), my labia minora has protruded a little more than it did before, and I occasionally get these little sore places on them. It's only one little place at a time and it feels like it's a little hardened place or possibly a bump, and it's very small. This has happended about 3 or 4 times, and the little place is always gone within a week. It irritates me when I walk, etc. Diaper rash cream seems to help it. Herpes has crossed my mind, but it seems impossible for several reasons. One, I have been in a monogamous relationship for 7 years or more. Two, a few months before I got married, I had an abnormal pap smear, and they told me it could be either herpes or cervicitis (I believe is what it was called). A biopsy proved it to be the latter, and they froze my cervix to fix it. Three, I have never had anything like this before I had my second child. Four, it doesn't scab over unless I pick at it (which I've only done once trying to figure out what it could be). Five, it only happens after pretty heavy and hard love making with my husband, and usually a week before my period. And six, my husband gives me oral sex at least twice a week, and he has never had any signs of anything, anywhere. I guess my question is: Could this be something else besides herpes? Does it sound like herpes?