There is no reason related to the exposure you describe to avoid sex with yoru regular partner.
Sorry for the typo. I meant to type HSV. EWH
on line 2 for your reasons why did you mean hsv2? you put HIS
thanks for the reply doc. so can i have sex with my lady friend? i asked the guy he says hes clean but i dont trust anyone. no my scrotum has been tingling anxiety maybe?
Welcome to the Forum. I presume that some of your concern is, understandably, that this was a new experience for you. I hope that my comments will help to ease your concerns. In addition, let me start by congratulating you on your commitment to safe sex- it will help to keep you healthy. In addition to condom use, for future interactions, consider asking your partner about their HIV and STD status, including when they were last tested. While this will not change the need for safe sex, it may provide additional help to you.
Your risk for getting any STD from the exposures you describe is very, very low. I will briefly tell you why.
1. You do not know that your partner had infection, most people do not. Although rates are highest amongst men who have sex with other men, HIV is still relatively uncommon. Herpes and other STDs are more common but still not too common.
2. Most STDs, including HIV are not transmitted with a single exposure. In fact for both HIV and HIS, even if your partner was infected, your risk for acquiring either of the infections is still less than 1 infection per 1000 exposures.
3. You further reduced your risk by using a condom. Condoms provide highly effect protection against all sTDs, reducing the risk of HIV by 99.9% if your partner is infected and reducing risk for HSV by at least 2/3's.
Bottom line, you are at little risk. In fact, given the nature of your exposures, I see no medical reason for testing at this time. If you continue to be active and have multiple partners, periodic (every 6-12 months) testing ("screening") is a good idea, just to be on the safe side.
Hope these comments help. EWH
one time exposure, sorry for the misspell
sorry meant to put 3 days ago in the first setence