Dear Doctor,
Approximately five weeks I had an intimate encounter with an ex-girlfriend. While I resisted intercourse (penetration) after she informed me that she had been in a relationship with an older, married man, the following intimate contact did take place:
1. Frolicking, general apposition of bare bodies and genitalia(but no direct contact, rubbing, etc., of mucous membranes / penis to vagina).
2. I also stimulated ("fingering") her to climax and vaginal fluids covered the end of my finger.
3. Lastly, she held my penis (shaft only) gently but did not lead to ejaculation.
At the end of the evening I realized that she suffered from extreme eczema, very raw skin, at times broken and oozing.
Since that night together I have been nearly paralyzed with worry and guilt. Medically, I am concerned that her eczematic lesions could have transmitted either herpes (HSV-2) or another STD to my genital area by contact of penis shaft. I have read about correlations between herpes and eczema.
Also, although I have read many "fingering" questions posted earlier, I have a specific variation that has not been answered as far as I can tell: can such hand-to-genital contact transmit genital herpes via finger? Why can't a virus like HSV, etc., (I have refrained for posting about my HIV transmission concern; will do so in appropriate forum as requested) penetrate via the soft tissue under fingernail, for example?
Does my exposure warrant HSV/STD testing (no self-evident, identifiable symptoms at this point, but I understand that is no source of reassurance).
I am more grateful than words can express for your service on this forum. May God bless you.
In despair,
Seeking Redepmtion