Feel sick with a rash

[stupid07]

symptoms soon after(no sex, BUT wouldnt listen to 'NO' and kept trying til i kicked him off me)..

1. Rash with a bunch of little bumps down there..they are evenly spread and havent changed?
2. Rash on my hand?
3. Pink dots on my tongue and 1 big lump on the back of my tongue that also isnt changing. i went to healthservices and they said that the tongue syptoms were simply a warning sign that i was getting a virus!? oh and my tongue is turnin white too.
4. i also feel weak but with no symptoms other than above mentioned, and i feel like my heart rate is up(maybe?) the ill feeling scares me the most.
  that sick feeling didnt start happening til the mutual FRIEND that SET US UP told me after that she wouldnt go near him ..and he has had a herpes/sypholis scare a few years ago and hes been with aloot of people. Nice friend.
i should have saw the signs, im naive/stupid.

  -i was told by doctors before..if i had herpes id know it.. but i have been reading that alot of people do not ever know??
  -nothing has changed (gotten better or worse) for 2 weeks or so.
  
thanks in advance for any advice.

[H. Hunter Handsfield, M.D.]

Your symtoms don't sound like herpes.  You don't describe in enough detail what it means to "not have sex" but you had to "kick him off me".  If there was genital aposition, even without transmission, then some small risk exists.  But probably to small to be a real risk.

But your doctors are wrong:  80% of herpes occurs without symptoms.  If you're particularly concerned about that disease, then after 6-8 weeks have passed, have a herpes blood test to be sure you aren't infected with herpes simplex virus type 2.  See numerous other strings on this forum about the proper herpes blood tests; some are reliable, others are not.

But I'm quite sure you didn't catch herpes from the episode you describe.

Good luck--  HHH, MD

[tamarahe]

GO TO A DOCTOR...If its scaring you so much why would you wait 2 weeks?