Welcome to the forum. Thanks for your question. It is one of many (several every week) about STD risk from non-intercourse sexual exposures like fingering and hand-genital contact. Just a few days ago I wrote a blog-like reply intended to cover questions like yours. Take a look:
http://www.medhelp.org/posts/show/2173021
HPV conceivably is a rare exception, i.e. maybe the rare instance of hand-genital transmission. But very rarely, if at all. Anyway, presumably you have been sexually active in the past with other partners (unlike your current partner). Therefore, you have been infected with genital HPV, probably more than once -- and could even now be carrying the virus. There is no significantly increased chance of it based on the hand-job exposure that occurred recently. Most important, if and when HPV ever shows up in your partner (e.g., an abnormal pap smear), you can be sure it had nothing to do with this particular event, and there will be no reason for your partner to assume you have been unfaithful.
For those reasons, you shouldn't be at all worred about this event. You should not be tested for any STD (and there's no approved test for HPV in males anyway) and should continue your normal sexual practices with your regular partner.
I hope these comments are helpful. Best wishes-- HHH, MD
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