STD Risks from Fingering, Licking or Dry Humping

[elahrairah]

I've received sensual massages from women before, but decided to try one from a man.  I am aware that touching is a safe sexual act and was expecting the same.  This was much more aggressive than the usual body rub ending with masturbation.  In addition to rubbing me all over, he gently licked my anus a couple of times and I stopped him, but he made a couple more attempts during the session.  He licked my nipples, again I stopped him, but he was later doing it again.  When rubbing my anus, which I told him touching was fine, he made multiple attempts to penetrate me with his finger, which at best he would get barely the tip in and I would pull away.  I did let him dry hump my buttocks and anus through his underwear, but not for long or anything even close to him having an orgasm.  He touched my penis a bit, but I wound up masturbating myself, kicked him out and took a thorough shower.  I'm not traveling that avenue again.  To the point, am I at any health risk from being dry humped through underwear, briefly receiving analingus, having my nipples licked or being touched or slightly fingered?  Thank you.

[elahrairah]

Thank you for your insight and putting my mind at rest.

[H. Hunter Handsfield, M.D.]

Welcome to the STD forum.

My first reaction is to the title you chose for your question, "STD Risks from Fingering, Licking or Dry Humping".  There are no STD risks from such exposure.

Now having read your question, it seems you are reacting more emotionally than anything else, after a sexual exposure that you regret.  But truly, you describe nothing that implies significant risk for any STD.  Without insertive sex -- a penis inside another person's vagina, rectum or mouth, STDs cannot be transmitted.  You should be having no worries about STDs on account of this event and you do not need to be tested for any STD or HIV.

Regards--  HHH, MD