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Lap Dance with hand contact

Great site, keep up the excellent work!

I got a lap dance the other day, where the stripper was naked and I was clothed.  She touched/rubbed her vagina a couple of times and then put the same hand down my pants and manipulated my bare erect penis.  I asked her to stop but she did it for 30 seconds to 1 minute.  Is there any risk of getting an std this way?  Herpes, gonorrhea or the like?  I went to my family doctor, who told me this was a low risk thing and just said to use condoms when having sex for the next month.  If no sores show up in the period, then I'm in the clear.

I was just worried because my wife is pregnant and I'm afraid of passing something on to her.

Should I be worried?

Thank you very much.
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They call them STDs because you have to have sex to transmit them. What you did doesn't count.  Your family doctor is correct.  Lap dances and hand-genital contact pose no risk for any STD.  So no, you should not be worried.  No realistic chance of any infection of any kind.

Regards--  HHH, MD
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Thanks Dr. Handsfield, you've helped put my mind to rest.  

All the best and please keep up this important work.  There is a ton of misinformation out there on other websites.  It's a great comfort to have some straight forward common sense answers to these questions from people like you.
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