Welcome to the STD forum.
Oral sex is safe sex; even without a condom, some STDs are not transmitted at all by oral sex, and all are transmitted much less frequently than by vaginal or anal intercourse. And your doctor is exactly right: with a condom, it is impossible to catch any STD by oral sex.
You don't need to worry, do not need STD testing, and you can safely have unrpotected sex with your wife.
I hope this helps. Best wishes-- HHH, MD
Thanks for you answer doctor,i just one more question for my peace of mind.Before the oral exposure she was over me naked and i touched her clitoris with my penis (no condom)for about 10 seconds, of course no penetration.Any risk from this touching exposure?
Thanks in advance.Best regards.
This information does not change my opinion or advice. STDs are more hard to transmit than you think. Very brief genital contact, without vaginal penetration, carries no signficant risk of any STD.