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MASSAGE PARLOR MISTAKE
HI, I was drunk and made a huge mistake and filled with anxiety. I went to a massage parlor while drunk, ended having intercourse with a condom as well as a prostate massg (no glove). the condom was fine, hadnt broken, but there was blood on it from her, which did not get on me.
I am panicking about the risk of hiv and other Std;s, i have a partner of 5 years and this is the first time i have ever done this and certainly my last, b... please let me know what my risks are for hiv and all other stds//?
finding it difficult to live with myself and do not want to put my wife at risk.
I am panicking about the risk of hiv and other Std;s, i have a partner of 5 years and this is the first time i have ever done this and certainly my last, b... please let me know what my risks are for hiv and all other stds//?
finding it difficult to live with myself and do not want to put my wife at risk.
MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL
Glad I could help. Take care/ Stay safe. EWH
I just wanted to update. I got tested for everything, and it all came back negative.
thank you for your help.
thank you for your help.
I don't know whether I'm panicking over nothing, but follow is I feel contrast need to urinate. Worried it's clamidhya. I have been out drinking a lot later for business and for the festive season.
this is very helpful and has put my mind at ease. thank you very much, this is a great forum and service.
MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL
Welcome to our Forum. I'll be happy to comment. Most commercial sex workers in New York and elsewhere in the U.S., do not have any STI and even when they do, even most unprotected exposures do not lead to infection. In your case, condom protected genital sex is a no risk event as long as the condom is worn throughout the encounter and does not break and, as you point out, if your condom appeared intact after sex, it was.
The presence of some of your partner's blood on the condom does not change this assessment at all. Blood is no more infectious than genital secretions.
As for her insertion of her finger into your rectum, this is a form of masturbation and, even if there were genital secretions on her finger, there is no evidence that STIs of any sort are transmitted though masturbation.
I appreciate that you feel bad about your actions. The good news is that despite your misstep, you did not put yourself, of your wife at risk form your activities. There is no need for concern related to the activities you describe, no need for testing, and no need for treatment. I hope this comment is helpful. EWH
The presence of some of your partner's blood on the condom does not change this assessment at all. Blood is no more infectious than genital secretions.
As for her insertion of her finger into your rectum, this is a form of masturbation and, even if there were genital secretions on her finger, there is no evidence that STIs of any sort are transmitted though masturbation.
I appreciate that you feel bad about your actions. The good news is that despite your misstep, you did not put yourself, of your wife at risk form your activities. There is no need for concern related to the activities you describe, no need for testing, and no need for treatment. I hope this comment is helpful. EWH
this was in nyc, should that extra information be relevant
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Herpes spreads by oral, vaginal and anal sex.
Herpes sores blister, then burst, scab and heal.
STIs are the most common cause of genital sores.
Millions of people are diagnosed with STDs in the U.S. each year.
STDs can't be transmitted by casual contact, like hugging or touching.
Syphilis is an STD that is transmitted by oral, genital and anal sex.
