Your positive test for Ureaplasma urealyticum is meaningless; it is carried normally in the urinary tract.
Ureplasma is shared sexually between partners, but most of the time causes no harm. It is present in at least half of all sexually active persons, men and women. The organism is a little controversial. Some strains may cause some cases of NGU, and there tends to be more belief in Ureaplasma as something important in Europe than in the US. But in my country, no STD clinic or public health department ever even tests people for Ureaplasma, except in the occasional research study. And Ureaplasma is not found in the mouth--so you didn't catch it during oral sex outside your marriage. You and your wife almost certainly share Ureaplasma as part of your normal genital bacteria. The positive result makes no difference in my earlier opinions or advice.
Almost certainly Ureaplasma doesn't explain your wife's abdominal pain. If she is not under the care of a physician, she needs to be seen to get a proper diagnosis.
HHH, MD
Ok, I got my results today and Chlamydia and Gonorhea were negative. I was diagnosed with Ureaplasma ureli...
What does this mean? Since I only had oral sex with others, could I have only got this from my wife?. And from what I am reading it is not harmful to women, as this bacteria is prevelent but why is she having lower abdominal pains and why didn^t her docter give her antibiotics?
I suppose it is possible you and your wife are sharing a yeast infection, and that your problem has nothing to do with your non-marital adventures. But yeast doesn't usually cause urethritis or discharge. Ask the clinic provider who examined and treated you whether yeast could explain your problem; I doubt it.
I never heard of dequalinium (Fluomizin). On quick search, it seems to be a rather obscure drug used primarily in Germany (?) for yeast and other vaginal infections, like bacterial vaginosis. It has not been well studied, even for those conditions. It is not effective against gonorrhea or chlamydia. Make certain your wife was tested for STDs in addition to yeast.
I stand by my original advice: You and your wife should return together for evaluation at the clinic where you were treated. You are not going to be able to get around it: in order to protect her health, your wife needs to know about your other sexual exposures.
HHH, MD
OK, my wife got checked out and I did not ask the details but they prescribed her Fluomizin (Dequaliniumchlorid is the active ingredient), and from what I can gather from the package is that it is for treating candida.
1) Could my symptoms be related or could the candida cause utheritis with discharge?
2) Would the Fluomizin clear up gono or chlamydia?
Thanks for your quick response
Don't assume your wife got checked for everything. If a married woman doesn't bring up the likelihood that she was exposed to gonorrhea, a practitioner might not test for it.
Does she know of your episodes?
Item 1) clarification I meant to write .... "since I don't have the yellow purulent discharge and pain when urinating I don^t think it is gono"
All I can say with any assurance is that you had urethritis, i.e. gonorrhea or nongonococcal urethritis (NGU). (NGU and NSU--"nonspecific urethritis"--are the same thing.) You are correct that chlamydia is not a realistic possibility from oral sex.
1) You give mixed indications about the diagnosis. Apparently your provider diagnosed gonorrhea, despite some initial uncertainty; but the treatment is not typical for gonorrhea. (Zithromax sometimes is used, but usually at higher doses.) Although gonorrhea tends to have a shorter incubation period and more purulent (yellower) discharge, those only are clues. The diagnostic tests tell the story, not the symptoms. You need to clarify this with the clinic.
2) It sounds like a good bet you transmitted gonorrhea or some other STD to your wife; her symptoms are typical. Andominal pain may mean pelvic inflammatory disease (PID), which can block the tubes and lead to infertility. She needs to be examined and treated immediately, preferably by the clinic where you were treated. Do not wait the week until your test results are available.
3) Regardless of the cause, symptoms of urethritis should begin to improve in a couple of days, but it may take several days to clear up entirely.
Your use of "NSU" suggests you may be in the UK or another commonwealth country, which have tended to stick with "NSU" rather than "NGU". If so, and you are under the care of a genitourinary medicine (GUM) clinic, you can rely on their expertise.
Good luck-- HHH, MD