This information doesn't change my opinion or advice. Consider yourself reassured once again. And for goodness' sake, stop examining yourself! You'll know if anything shows up, without having to be so visually intimate with your penis!
That will wind up this thread. Do your best to move on without worry.
It's been 10 days since the incident described above. I've gotten to know every bump,crease, and crevice of my penis better than I'd ever hoped. I assume that because I've got absolutely no symptoms I'm beyond concern and should just move on with my life? I know how I sound, would just really appreciate some reassurance. Thanks again. This forum is incredibly helpful!
So in this case it would be the base if the penis vs tip based in the exposure described?
Almost all initial STD symptoms are at the site of contact -- discharge from the penis, penile sores, etc.
Thanks Doctor,
That's very helpful. One follow up, if symptoms were to develop as you mentioned, WHERE would that be? In the actual location of contact or randomly?
Welcome to the forum. Thanks for your question.
The bottom line is that you are not a significant risk of any STD from the exposure you have described. Within the context of your decision to have commercial sex, you went about it with maximum safety -- and condoms work! Furhter, most sex workers who proclaim consistent safety with clients probably are telling the truth.
In any case, no STDs can be transmitted through intact latex. Condoms usually cover only ~75% of the penile shaft; protection for STDs is complete as long as the head and urethral opening are covered. Oral is very low risk even without a condom, and hand-genital contact is entirely risk free. There are probably still small risks for herpes or for HPV from contact of the penile shaft above the condom, but both are very low, and if you caught herpes, you probably would develop symptoms to alert you.
So my advice is to chalk this up to a learning experience. Don't confuse anxiety over a sexual choice you regret with STD risk; they aren't the same. If I were in your circumstance, I would not get tested for anything and I would continune unprotected sex with my wife without fear of infecting her with any STD from this event.
I hope this has helped. Best wishes-- HHH, MD