CONCERNED

[jbp102400338]

10weeks ago I  performed unprotected cunnillingus, no penetration, a  few minutes or less and light fingering,not long with stripper, kind of low class place but  she seemed clean,I was fully dressed no other fluids exchanged.

I had posrted this question and the advise was very low risk exposure to any std's other that small risk of oral gonorrhoea. I did not get any testing.Since then I have had sex with my wife, oral on her as well.

Issue is that her last 2 periods have both come 5 days early, from 21days to 16 with heavier bleeding, She usually always has them 21 days,now I am freaking out that I passed something to her??

I have no symtoms only noticed a sore right testicle once in a while lately.

Could I have passed somethng to her by oral sex on her,if so wouldn't I have symtoms?

The only thing she mentioned that a few years ago her doctor said she has fibriods but her periods have always approx every 21 days until now,she said she is going make an appointment,

Should I worry about her having an STD that causing her problem??

Thanks for your help.    


I Appreciate your time
  

[H. Hunter Handsfield, M.D.]

Welcome back to the forum.

In theory, some STDs can cause varied menstrual periods, including early periods.  However, many other things are much more common.  And fibroids are one of the most common, and almost certainly the explanation in your wife's case.  Certainly no STD that could be caught by oral sex on another woman could cause such a thing. Don't worry about it.

It would appear you are feeling ashamed or guilty about a sexual decision you regret.  Deal with that aspect as you need to, but don't confuse that decision with STD risk.  They aren't the same.

Best regards--  HHH, MD

[jbp102400338]

Yes I do feel guilty,and the worrying does get the best of you.



Thanks so much Dr Handsfield,