I received unprotected oral sex through ejaculation (probably for 1 to 2 minutes) last week and kissed a woman who had no visible cold sores. Every since then, I have been very anxious about herpes. This person claims to have had one partner since november and been tested in March and again this week for STDs and been STD free. Among the negative tests were both forms of herpes.
However, I have still had great concerns about herpes, in part because I do not know her and can't be sure if she is telling the truth. For the last three or four days, the lymph nodes around my groin have been periodically uncomfortable though not painful. They just feel tight on occasion or almost bloated. It will intensify (along with my anxiety) and then go away or lessen. In addition, I have felt bloated at times in my stomach, sometimes constipated, occasional penile and testicular discomfort (again a feeling of being bloated), lower back and buttock stiffness, and what feel like heat rashes in different parts of my body at times.
I should say my anxiety is very high, which may be causing some of this. I have not eaten, drank or slept much this week and have lost about 10 pounds. I had been monogomous for a while, so I am certain it is not HIV. I had an STD specialist look at my genitals yesterday, and he said that he did not see anything of concern. I had my blood tested for HSV-1 & 2 and will find out the results on Wed.. I have no cold sores, though I do have some white bumps on my upper right gum line. They don't hurt at all. Again, the specialist looked at those and said they looked like normal tissue to him, but that he was not a "mouth" specialist. I have not urinated frequently, but it doesn't hurt when I do. What has me concerned is the lymph nodes. Here are my questions:
1. Do these sound like Herpes symptoms?
2. If not, what could the problem with the lymph nodes be?
3. Any other thoughts on what could be happening?