Infection is a possiblity, not a certainty by any means. The risk of infection following direct contact is no higher than a 1 in 3 chance of infection. EWH
Bless you doc, one last question and I will move along. I've been reading amongst the forums that if in fact direct contact was achieved, it would mean there is a 50/50 chance of infection, is there any truth to this? does it guarantee infection or is it just a possibility? Again thank you for your input.
Welcome back to our Forum. Several comments regarding your post:
Your partner said that the indentation you noted had been there for some time. If so, it was not syphilis but some other thing, perhaps a scar. Syphilitic lesions go away, even if untreated in a few weeks. Furthermore, you state that the base did not look raw- syphilis chancres would appear raw.
But, if it was, what then? Syphilis is spread by direct contact with an infected lesion. thus, if you rubbed your penis on a partner's syphilis sore, there is a chance that you could get infected. The same goes if you touched/handled a sore although as noted on the STD Prevention community site, the skin of the hand is less susceptible to infection than the skin of the penis.
Finally, I do not see any contradiction in the information you got from the CDC web site. If a sore is present and there is contact during anal or vaginal intercourse, the infection could be spread.
I hope this helps. My guess is that your risk of syphilis is very low. If you did get syphilis (unlikely, as I said, we would expect a new painless sore to appear at a site of contact within 3 weeks of your exposure. If this does not happen, you have nothing to worry about. EWH