Thanks so much in advance for your help.
History, 6 weeks ago, unprotected vaginal and oral sex with a woman. She is/was in a relationship with another male and another female. 2 weeks afterwards, I visited my doctor with congested throat and lungs, and was diagnosed with walking pnuemonia, and was put on antibiotics, and symptoms resided after about 1.5 weeks. Also, I tested myself and the woman at 3 weeks with the homeaccess HIV test kits. Both returned negative.
However, over the past week, I've started getting generalized itching sporatically over my body. Yesterday (now at 6 weeks after the incident), I noticed a patch of rash on my hand. By the end of the day, I had the following symptoms: light rash on/around my neck, hot flashes, tender/sore lymph glands on the right side of my neck, and a sweating episode after I fell asleep. FYI, I took 2 overthecounter sleeping pills to help get to sleep due to anxiety. No sore throat, no fever (98.6-98.9), just a touch of malaise a few times, no sore joints, no diarrea. This morning, the lymph glands feel less sore, but are still sore. The rash is slightly better, but still itchy and apparent, with small and infrequent itchy areas on my back, belly, feet, and hands (but no rash). I feel slighty fatiqued, kind of 'out of it'. And have had one or two episodes where I felt the most early stages of throwing-up.
After reading all the other posts, I know it's unlikely I have HIV. But....anxiety is really kicking in. My concern is that the woman or one of her partners contracted HIV within a week or so prior to our sexual contact, and her HIV count was high and thus much higher risk. That, along with my current symptoms have me VERY worried/panicked. The tender lymph nodes and the rash have me most worried, I've never had an unexplained rash before, and even with colds, which I get maybe once every 3 years, I hardly ever get sore/tender lymph nodes. I'm otherwise very healthy, with lots of excercise and great diet. One specific question, are the homeaccess in-home testing kits accurate at 6 weeks post exposure?
Thanks!!