Welcome to our Forum. I'll work through your multiple questions:
1. DUO (HIV antigen and antibody) tests can be difficult to find in North America. If you are having difficulties you can achieve the same result with an HIV PCR test an a standard HIV antibody test at 4 weeks. The only risk is that the HIV PCR test has a higher false positive rate than the HIV antigen test contained in the DUO tests.
2. At 4 weeks standard tests for gonorrhea, chlamydia and syphilis will be reliable.
3. No a low positive HSV antibody test could still be a false positive, even if your BF has ha a prior negative test. Our advice is and continues to be not to use HSV antibody tests for the purpose you suggest.
4. With consistent condom use for genital sex your should not be at risk for HIV. HIV is not spread through oral sex.
5. If his tests are negative at 4 weeks your risk for getting an ST is virtually zero.
Hope this helps. EWH
Oral HSV occurs very rarely although precisely why is difficult to explain an may related to fundamental biological differences between HSV-1 an HSV-2. So rarely that there are not even estimates to the frequency with which it occurs.
The reasons that you mention are a major part or why neither we nor the CDC recommend using HSV blood tests for diagnosis of HSV. The relatively high false positive rate means that in many settings the test would detect more false positives than true infections- this is not a good use of resources and fuels anxiety, insecurity an stigma. Your circumstance may be an exception and what we offer is advice which you may take or leave. If you choose to have your BF screened, I would still use the HerpeSelect assay and, should a result be positive, then figure out next steps based on the situation and numerical values of the result. While the increased values we suggest help a lot, they are not perfect, nor is the WB.
All tests for HSV have false negatives. The only available data are for WB in persons with PROVEN HSV, not in the situation you are suggesting. In such instances as many as 7% of persons with known HSV-2 do not have positive tests.
I realize you are concerned. I hope these replies help. EWH
Thank you very much for your time and thorough response.
While I understand that HIV risk with oral sex is almost non-existent, what is the risk for HSV2 transmission? It is not something I want to risk given my immune response to the medications used to control it.
Also, and as an aside, while I do understand the risk of false positives with the HSV 1/2 specific tests, since it is reported that a good number of people who are positive for HSV2 are asymptomatic and unaware, and the stats are underreported, why then advise to *not* test people who do not have (or do not admit) to possible exposure? Is it just due to emotional distress of false +? People who do not show symptoms can still shed and spread the virus, no? If one follows the cut off guidelines referenced on this site, rather than the ones used by the manufacturer, then doesn't that greatly decrease the risk of false positive? What is the rate of false negatives? How many weeks post exposure is a negative on the test able to definitively rule out an infection? Is the Western Blot used at the University in Washington the only way to definitively do that?
Thanks for your assistance.