RECEIVE Rimjob - Syphilis? STDs?

[loveneverdie]

First of all, I have to appreciate for your kindly help and advise

Two weeks ago, I went to a business trip to Asia. In China, I got a service from a massage girl ( I believe she is sex worker, I know I made a terrible mistake)
She only gave me a protected ******* and unprotected rimjob ( She licked my anus). I think She also sucked my balls. Unfortunately, I am not sure if she has chancre in her mouth or lips and i am not sure if there is any tiny small cuts around my anus.

I know you have mentioned thousands times in this forum that RECEIVE rimming has a low low risk to get any STDs; however, I have read from many other website says: RECEIVE rimjob can contract Syphilis and herpes, and Syphilis is very easy to transmit. This information really freak me out. I can't sleep well for days. I have a sweet family. I love my wife. I don't want to hurt her feeling.

I would like to know if you have piratically seen or heard anything like contracting STDs (especially Syphilis) from getting rimmed, based on your experience? How safe is this activity? ( is the risk really closed to 0?)

I am thinking to get a STD test 5 weeks after the exposure, how accurate will the result be?

Please help me.

Thank you very much.

[Edward W Hook, MD]

The risk from the exposures you describe is essentially zero.  Your oral sex was condom protected and therefore no risk.  The anal contact is not associated with risk either. I would not worry that your partner ha oral syphilis. Oral syphilis is quite rare and when it occurs, occurs almost exclusively among men who have sex with other men, not n heterosexuals, even those who are commercial sex workers.  

Testing for routine STDs now, or at any time in the future will confirm what I've just told you- you are not at risk for STD from the exposures you describe. EWH

[loveneverdie]

Dear, Dr. EWH,

Thank you very much for all you advice. I think your words are totally right. I did all std tests 8 weeks after the exposure. They all come to negative.

And I assume the test should be conclusive.

Thank you very much.

[Edward W Hook, MD]

Your follow-up question was deleted because it had been addressed and was a repetitive anxiety-driven question.  I will briefly repeat the answers you've already gotten.  Then there will be no further responses and additional questions will be deleted.  

Wiping you anus will not cause a lesion an does not increase your virtually zero risk of infection.  Having your anus licked will not put you at meaningful risk for syphilis.  

Forget about these concerns of ,  if you cannot, go speak with a counselor or mental health professional who can help.  Your guilt is clearly troubling you.  I say this out of concern.

End of thread. EWH

[loveneverdie]

Dear Dr. EWH,

Thank you very much for sharing your wisdom.

I read some of your replies in this forum, you mentioned about Syphilis as "lesion disease"

I want to ask if wipe anus after using the bathroom will cause tiny lesion around the anus, because I actually used the bathroom around an hour before my stupid activity. Also the CSW wipe my anus with her wet tissue before the rimjob.

Will these thing cause lesion? I really don't know if she got sores in her mouth or not.

If she has a sore in her mouth and i don't have any lesion around my anus. Will licking anus still cause risk?

Dear, Dr. Please don't delete my post and answer this question. I love my family so much. My wife is the best lady I have ever seen. I know I made a mistake. I am so scared and will definitely get a test 5 weeks after the exposure.

Thank you again.

[Edward W Hook, MD]

I cannot comment on other internet sites.  Some have great information, some are wrong,  Sometimes information is taken out of context to make things seem like more of a problem than they are.  

No, I've not seen anyone acquire syphilis from rimming

EWH

[loveneverdie]

Dear Dr. EWH,

You are my hero.

I am actually very confused. why there are so many websites say RECEIVE rimjob can get Syphilis?

Based on the data and your experience, have you seen a case of people contract Syphilis (or other STDs) from receiving unprotected rimjob?

Again, thank you very much for you help.

[Edward W Hook, MD]

Yes, a 5 week test will be fine and will prove that you are not at risk.  

Yoiu are over reacting. Get over it.EWH

[loveneverdie]

Sorry, Dr. EWH, I am so nervous.

If she has a sore in her mouth or tongue and I have a tiny small cut around my anus, is that possible I will contract any STDs.

I am know I am a little bit overreact. I am so scared.

[loveneverdie]

Sorry for being annoying, Dr.EWH,

For Other STDs, I worry about Herpes, Warts and Gonorrhea.

Thank you so much for your help.

[loveneverdie]

Dear Dr. EWH, Thank you so much for your wonderful comments?

Would you mind me to ask you if there is any chance I will contract other STDs, given that I haven't felt any uncomfortable on my body in the past 2 weeks?

Do you think 5 weeks STD test will be long enough to rule out all my concerns?

Thank you for much for your help.  I am so nervous.

[loveneverdie]

Dear Dr. EWH, Thank you so much for your wonderful comments?

Would you mind me to ask you if there is any chance I will contract other STDs, given that I haven't felt any uncomfortable on my body in the past 2 weeks?

Do you think 5 weeks STD test will be long enough to rule out all my concerns?

Thank you for much for your help.  I am so nervous.