Welcome to the forum. Despite the standard recommendations for testing out to 3 months, there is very, very little chance that you have syphilis. Let me explain.
First, syphilis is a rare infection, even among men who have sex with other men.
Second, syphilis is passed through direct contact an you saw the body surfaces that you were exposed to. No lesions, no risk.
Third, when persons get syphilis they typically develop lesions at a site of direct contact within 3 weeks of exposure. These lesions may be painless which is how they get missed, leading to the idea that syphilis can be asymptomatic since a lesion at a location like the rectum or within a woman's vagina is unlikely to be seen and therefore would be missed. In your case, your sites of exposure were your tongue an mouth so if a lesion had formed, I presume you would have seen it.
A syphilis test at 28 days will detect the substantial majority of cases (sorry, there are no percentages to provide) but a very small proportion of infected people will not have positive blood tests until a longer period has passed. The recommendation for 12 weeks is conservative and meant to detect every case that would occur but, in my experience, is an overly conservative recommendation.
I hope this helps. At this time the possibility you have syphilis is exceedingly low. I would not worry. Whether or not you get additional testing is, of course, up to you. EWH
Hi,
thanks for the feedback. Went back to a different clinic and was told taht a test at 7 weeks should certainly show signs. It has come back negative. They have also assured me taht there would be no need for another test at 12 weeks. The white mark at the back of my mouth is still there. I am not sure if this is because I am dehydrated but it has been with me now for approximately 2 weeks. It is quite a large area - maybe half an inch or so across. Will try and and get it looked at soon.
Thanks for your help.
In theory yes, if there is direct contact with a sore. In your case, this simply is not a realistic concern. EWH
Just one more question, if I may.
Can syphilis be passed on by kissing? 7 week in since the event I have now developed a sore throat but it is too far back for me to see if it is one of the 'lesions/chancres'.