Greetings. Welcome to the fourm. I'll try to help.
I briefly scanned your extended discussion on the herpes community forum. Some of your symptoms were consistent with initial herpes, but they were not typical. As you already know, your history of recurrent oral herpes means you were highly resistant, if not entirely immune, to a new HSV-1 infection. And on direct examination, your doctor didn't think herpes was likely.
Nevertheless, you had a positive genital swab test for HSV-1. I don't know how to interpret the lab's description of an initially negative result but positive for HSV-1 on retesting, but probably it is reliable. Could that really have been HSV-2? That's doubtful, given the negative HSV-2 blood test.
As for whether your perception of vaginal "bumps" could reflect genital warts or other HPV infection, that's even more speculative. I'll have to defer to your doctor on that one. As you may know, 20-40% of all sexually active young women have HPV at any point in time; it's a normal and expected consequence of being sexually active. So even if you were to have a positive test for HPV, it won't help judge the cause of the bumps. Diagnosis of genital warts is based entirely on visual inspection.
What to do now about herpes? This is a sufficiently complex and uncertain situation that you should not reply primarily on this or any other online source. I would like you to find a physician who understands herpes and other infectious diseases in detail. If you are in or near a major urban area, your doctor should be able to recommend an infectious diseases specialist or an ObG who sub-specializes in ID.
Two potential approaches that such a person might recommend are 1) to have another HSV blood test at the 6 month mark, i.e. a month or so from now; and 2) to have repeat genital HSV testing by PCR. Specifically, the approach is for up to 10 self-collected vaginal/genital swabs; they can placed in a single collection container and all tested simultaneously (at the cost of a single test). This process can be repeated a couple of times if the first gives negative results. The combined results would help tell whether you really have genital HSV-2 (which I doubt); and also will give a clue about how frequently you might shed HSV-1 genitally, i.e. will help judge the risk of transmitting to partners.
Sorry that I can't solve all the questions. But I hope this has helped.
Regards-- HHH, MD