Oral sex is not zero risk for STDs, but it is quite low risk. Further, any STDs acquired by oral sex almost always cause obvious symptoms. Therefore, in the absence of abnormal discharge or sore on the penis, no testing is necessary.
I have not heard of "enlarged vins on the prostate". So maybe these were not hemorrhoids. Ask the urologist about it.
Please work to accept the overwhelming scientific evidence and the reasoned reassurance you had, repeatedly (on 2 MedHelp forums plus undoubtedly your own doctors) that you have no STD/HIV worries from the events described.
That will be all for this thread.
One question I left out. The women gave me oral sex without a condum. Is this a STD risk? Also, my urologist said that he noticed enlarged veins on my prostate when he did the cystocope. Should I question him about this since you mentioned potential of hemorrhoids? Thanks for your patience with me. It's appreciated.
Welcome to the forum. However, re-asking the same questions of different experts is not going to get you a different answer. You had accurate replies from both Dr. Cummings and Dr. Gonzalez-Garcia on the international forum. As you were told, you had little or no risk of HIV, and your test results prove you didn't catch it. STDs are no more tranmitted by hand-genital contact or fingering than HIV is, so you can be sure your rectal problem is not due to an STD from the exposure 12 weeks ago. The same applies to any other symptoms you have now or may develop in the future. The "enlarged veins" probably were in the anus, i.e. hemorrhoids.
"Do you have any recommendations for me?" No. There is no need for STD testing. My advice is to continue to follow up with your personal physician(s) if you have any ongoing concerns.
Regards-- HHH, MD