Some protected sex anxiety

[harerama]

Hi
I am Asian male from Germany n will get arrange married in two weeks.
I was a virgin until this year and had sexual encounters this year with CSWs as follows:

February: Protected oral/vaginal sex with CSW of 22 years from Hungary.  I gave her unprotected Cunnilingus.  We had sex three times in 2 hours. Each session was for around 8 minutes.  In between we lie down naked.  There may have been bare genital touch when I moved over her/cuddled then.

March: Protected oral/vaginal sex +unprotected Cunnilingus with Romanian CSW of 20 ys.  We had sex three times in 2 hours. Each session was for around 8-12 minutes.  In between we lie down naked.  There may have been bare genital touching (bare penis touch thighs/vagina/buttocks) when I moved over her during this time. During sex condom was slipping halfway when I pulled out.  I removed condom and put another and continued. I used same fingers I used to finger her.  Her vaginal fluid may have gotten inside condom when handling it.  My penis head was always covered.

Mid April: 2x  Protected Oral/Vaginal sex with Italian escort of 24 years.  Nothing more.

Two weeks ago: Protected oral and vaginal sex + unprotected cunnilingus with Polish CSW of 22 years.  Condom was slipping halfway when pulled out.  I pulled it back in place and continued sex.  Penis head always covered.

STD results today (tested 3 days back):  STD test - HIV, Hep B, Syphillis, NGU swab, Gonorrhoea swab, Chlamydia swab, Throat swab for Gonorrhoea ... ALL NEGATIVE.  The doctor said there is no need to test for Herpes since there has been no symptoms at all.

I checked my genitals everyday since first time of sex.  No lesions or any symptoms.

Can I have unprotected sex with my future wife in two weeks time and settle down without any fear of any STDs or Herpes?  Or do I need further testing?  I want to have sex with my wife only now on.

And should I stop examining my genitals now?  I really want to have kids and settle down.

Danke

[harerama]

thank you very much doctor.  I am really relieved and confident I will lead a happy life.  You will be the one of the most thanked in my life forever.

Courage and Prosperity for you.

Namaste

[Edward W Hook, MD]

No change in my assessment or advice.  When condoms fail, they break wide open.  If you condom appeared to be intact, it was and you can be confident that it did it's job.  The piercing did not damage the condom.  Please don't be frightened or concerned.  EWH

[harerama]

I meant holes made due to the tongue and lips piercing she had during oral sex. used same condom for vaginal sex then.. please see the two comments above.. please.. i am scared

[harerama]

sorry for sounding stupid but two lives are in play here.. I really hope you will help me.. I saw the teat was intact with all the semen inside..the sex was quite wild and rough..my worry is any unnoticed rip/hole made before that during oral sex.. same condom was used throughout. This is really my only worry left.

Please do answer.. I am so worried all of a sudden because I missed this detail.. I cannot concentrate on my wedding preparations now..

[harerama]

Dear doctor

I am sorry to be disturbing you again..  there is one last detail I need to point out which is bothering me.  On my last sex, I used a condom for protected oral and same condom for protected vaginal sex.  The sex was quite rough.  The girl had one tongue piercing and one lips piercing and performed oral on same condom used for both oral and vaginal sex.  After sex I checked the condom teat and all the semen seemed inside and there was no apparent tear on the top of the condom.  I wonder if the piercings could have made little holes and all that and the made my vaginal sex unsafe.  I really don't know.  All this was 12 days before my STD tests.

Does this change anything in what you said?  Do I need to be worried or just move on now?  

PS. I tested for HIV, HEP B, Chalmydia, Gonorhoea and Syphillis,  NO HERPES TEST SINCE NO SYMPTOMS.  

You said that I do not need further testing for any STD including herpes above.

This is my last and only worry since I forgot to add it in the details above.

Danke

[Edward W Hook, MD]

Glad to help. EWH

[harerama]

Thank you very very much dear doctor.  Enjoy all the health and wealth of the world.  You will be particularly remembered during my marriage!

I will always be indebted.

[Edward W Hook, MD]

Welcome to the Forum.  I'll be pleased to comment.  As I read your comments I note that all of your genital exposures were condom protected, as we're your receipt of oral sex.  Since they were condom protected, there is no meaningful risk of infection.  That your condom slipped down somewhat during sex does not change this.  As long as the tip of the penis was covered, the condom is doing its job.  Similarly even unprotected cunnilingus is virtually no risk for STD.  Your naked touching during these activities did not out you at risk for STD.

Your negative test results serve to confirm what I have just said.  You do not have the STDs you were tested for.

I hope that this information is helpful.  You have no need for concern about STD and no need for further testing for any STD, including herpes.  Enjoy your relationship with your future wife without concern.  EWH

[harerama]

My last sex two weeks back was quite wild and rough but protected. I also french kissed some of the CSWs.

I want a good life with no STDs and have a family.  I am really anxious.

[harerama]

Just to add.  I did all of this since I was a 26 year old virgin and my friends humiliated me a lot.  It was part of their scheme to make me have some manly experience.. I really regret it.. Please not that there was not bare genital frottage/apposition.  Any bare genital touch would have been accidental when lying down or cuddling with the CSWs naked on bed.  I really do not remember well if there was effectively any touching.  Also before my first sex in February, I had shaved my penis/pubic area 3 hours before sex and may have had some nicks/cuts down there.

I will always be faithful to my wife after marriage.  Please help me.