Welcome to the forum.
Almost certainly you do not have HSV-2. First, the supposedly equivocal HSV-2 blood test result really is negative for practical purposes. For more details on this, see the thread linked below. It's a few years old, but the information still is accurate.
http://www.medhelp.org/posts/STDs/IGG-Test-Result-Confusion/show/593272
As for the exposure you describe, it was not merely low risk for HSV-2; it was zero risk for practial purposes. HSV-2 is not spread by kissing or by hand-genital contact, and rarely by oral sex. You should not have been tested for HSV-2 on account of that exposure, and I'm afraid you're now suffering the common consequence that the blood tests often give false or misleading results.
As for the "sore-like thing" on your lip, it obviously was not herpes. No herpes lesion can clear up in less than a week, and certainly not in half and hour. Valacyclovir (Valtrex) speeds healing of herpes lesions, but it still takes a few days to have any visible effect.
Having said that, since you have started down the path of HSV-2 testing, I recommend you follow up with another test in a few weeks. Most likely it will be definitely negative, with an ELISA value under 0.9. If so, you can definitely forget herpes.
So feel free to return to let me know the result, if you have a follow-up test. In the meantime, do not take any more valacyclovir, which can interfere with accurate testing; and do your best not to worry. There is no realistic chance you caught HSV-2 from the events you have described.
Best wishes-- HHH, MD