Welcome to our Forum. I'll try to help. this risk for getting any STI from the encounter you describe is quite low. Most commercial sex workers do not have STIs and the chance of acquiring infection if you have sex with an infected partner is low. Further, your genital exposure was condom protected and thus safe sex. As for oral sex, fewer STIs are acquired through oral sex than through genital exposures.
1. Am I 100% clear of gonnorhea and chlamydia or is a false negative possible with me testing so quickly after the exposure?.
Currently available tests for gonorrhea and chlamydia are quite accurate and the timing of your testing is not a problem. You should believe these results. You did not get gonorrhea or chlamydia from this exposure.
2. What else should I go get tested for and what possible STD's could be causing these issues?
Your symptoms are not typical of any STI. Herpes would not cause discomfort inside your urethra unless there were also lesions on the outside of your penis.
3. I can get some doxycycline pills that I know treat some STD's. Should I begin to take them? (friend has them leftover from acne or something, so he says.) Of course, I know I would need to check the dose and take appropriately.
The infections that are treated by doxycycline are the infections you have already had ruled out with tests. I would not recommend taking the medication.
4. The Planned Parenthood clinic says I am in the clear. However, I was 100% fine before the encounter and now I am not. Something has to be wrong!
I agree with the folks at Planned Parenthood. Your symptoms are not typical of any STI, your exposure was low risk, and your tests are negative. Sometimes following exposures that people wish they did not have, they notice normal sensations that are overlooked when they are not so focused on the possibility of an STI. Perhaps this is what is going on.
I would not worry about STI at this time and see no reason for you to abstain from unprotected sex with your regular partner. EWH
Straight to your follow-up questions:
If my symptoms are not STI/STD related should I just wait for them to go away?
That would be my advice. On the other hand, if they are getting worse and there are still no obvious abnormalities that can be seen you should discuss them with your doctor. They could be due to back problems or some other process. It is possible the doctor would tell you to just not worry but I think you'd be better off being checked first, if they are getting worse.
Should I go see some other type of doctor?
See above. A general internist would be a good place to start.
Could I have some sort of other infection, inflammation, or virus? \
See above. This is beyond the scope of this site.
And I know you already answered this... but I AM safe to assume normal unprotected intercourse with my regular partner?
Yes
Take care. EWH
Hello again Doc. I appreciate all of your comments and time you took to address my concerns.
I am hoping you can help me out a little further and help guide me in the right direction for my next steps.
It seems likely I am clear of any STI/STD issue from your comments. However, I am still experiencing the strange mild pain/tingling sensation in the shaft of my penis. (No extra pain while urinating). If I squeeze my shaft to try to see if it does anything positive or negative for the pain it has zero effect. My testicles are also a little sore/tender. The very tip of my penis is also still very sensitive to where I can feel it when I walk and it rubs against my underwear. These are all symptoms that were 100% not there before my encounter (9/24) but have had since 2 days after.
If my symptoms are not STI/STD related should I just wait for them to go away?
Should I go see some other type of doctor?
Could I have some sort of other infection, inflammation, or virus?
And I know you already answered this... but I AM safe to assume normal unprotected intercourse with my regular partner?
I do appreciate your time & comments. Just looking for some sort of answer to the problems I am having and if I need to possibly seek help from a specialist.
Thanks again.