Welcome to the Forum. I'll try to help. The activities that you describe did not put you at risk for most STIs since there was no penetration. Further of the STIs which can be acquired without penetration such as syphilis, herpes, or HPV, there is no evidence that you have any of these problems. Your negative VDRL test is conclusive evidence that you did not get syphilis, if you had herpes you would have known it by now and the dermatologist you saw said that HPV is not a concern. I see no reason for further concern and no need for additional testing. You are not a risk for your wife or child.
I hope my comments are helpful. You should move forward without concern. EWH
Pleas sir,last one.soap include water quickly killing bacteria and virus?so soapymassege time not infect people any std?
Your question is hard to follow. I have already told you, there is no reason to worry about HSV or HPV. EWH
thank you.very quickly replay me.i am bad english.not a first lanuage english me.i am worry some i got herpes or hpv not symtems?my dermatologist told all std within one month first episode had symtems.that true.i read online hsv and hpv sometimes not symtems.