What are my risk for stds or herpies, aids with salavia?

[LLL1969]

Hi, This is my situation. I went to a strip club and got a lap dance. While getting the lap dance the stripper at one point touched her vaginal and inserted her finger in her vaginal. She then continued to dance. Then later about 2 to 5 minutes later or so, she licked that same finger and pulled the top of my pants down and placed the finger on top of my penis opening and rub it (The urethra). I'm at any risk for anything here? i don't know if she has cuts on hand or finger, if she was menstraul at the time and might have some blood in her vaginal then put on finger. Any STDS i can get from the saliva being rubbed on penis? Also, how about herpes from salavia? Some websites say yes to herpes from salavia but others say no. That not salavia,but it has to be skin to skin direct contact. But if a herpe sore is on your lips wouldn't it be in your salavia when someone uses it as lubricant or they actually have to put the sore right on genitals to get infected? Thank you. Any help will be great.

[Edward W Hook, MD]

Glad to help.  Take care. EWH

[Edward W Hook, MD]

Welcome to the Forum. There is no risk to you of acquiring any STD, including HIV from an exposure of this type.  For starters, there is virtually no risk on getting any of the diseases mentioned from saliva.  Furthermore, while in general there is virtually no risk of getting STDs or HIV through genital to hand to genital contact, in your case, even the theoretical risk is lower because of the time between her putting her finger in her vaginal and touching you.  There would be no risk if she went immediately from her vaginal to your penis and even less (if such a thing is possible) in the situation you describe.  In addition, that she placed her finger in her vagina several minutes before she touched you (including your penis) does not put you at risk.  In the time between putting her finger in her vagina and touching you, any bacteria or viruses present would have died.  

You have nothing to worry about and do not need testing.  Take care.  EWH

[LLL1969]

Thank you Doctor. I guess the herpe situation i mentioned has to be direct skin to skin contact with sore not salavia?  I just get confused because some other websites say herpies can pass through salavia.  Thanks for your rapid response. I don't think it possible to go faster from vaginal to penis like u said. lol. Thank you again.