I can't tell whether your doctor's term "vaginal infection" means BV. He is the one to ask.
I deleted a comment from username drj061299. If you didn't see it, don't worry. If you did, I deleted it because most of the information was wrong. There are no data to suggest BV is caused by yeast meds, and the ideas about sex without lubrication, heat and friction have no basis. (First time I ever heard such a thing....)
I can't help further. Follow up with your provider. This thread is closed.
Thanks for replying. Is a vaginal bacteria infection the same as bacteria vaginosis? My doc told me that the bacterial infection that I have is not contagious. Can men get bacteria infections and pass them?
I would like to help but probably cannot. Regardless of "My body has not been right" and your other symptoms, nothing you mention suggests herpes. Even though herpes can be confused with yeast infections and can cause nonspecific symptoms like vaginal discharge, such confusion generally is limited to patients who have not been professionally evaluated. A gynecologist or other experienced health care provider is not likely to miss herpes.
To your specific questions:
1) "Could" there be something the doc is missing? Possibly yes, but probably not herpes or any other STD.
2) Herpes and hemorrhoids are not likely to be confused with one another.
3) Since herpes is on your mind, ask your doc about having a blood test for HSV-2. You can expect a negative result. If positive, it won't necessarily explain your symptoms (you could have asymptomatic herpes plus something else causing the discharge etc). But if negative, which is what I expect, it will conclusively exclude herpes as a cause. Also, talk to your partner about all this. As an "old friend", most likely he would tell the truth if he has a past history of herpes, and might be happy to be tested for it himself to see if he could possibly have infected you.
Beyond these things, my best advice is that you follow up with your doc and follow his or her advice. Ask whether he or she has evaluated you for bacterial vaginosis, if that hasn't come up before now. You could also discuss possible referral to an ObG who subspecializes in infectious diseases. Such persons can be found in most major population centers, typically in association with larger medical centers or medical schools.
Finally, a word of reassurance: You describe nothing that sounds serious. Almost certainly you have nothing that will ever seriously harm your health or that of a future sex partner.
Regards-- HHH, MD