Welcome to the STD forum. I'll try to help.
It is unlikely you have any STD from the oral sex event, for everal reasons: 1) In general, oral sex is safe sex -- not comletely risk free, but much less likely to result in STD than vaginal or anal sex. 2) 10 weeks is far too long for onset of symptoms. 1-2 weeks is usually the maximum, rarely more than 3 weeks. 3) Painful urination alone, without discharge of pus or mucus from the penis, is an uncommon STD symptom.
Even though any STD is unlikely, it was a mistake to not tell your doctor the full story. Most likely s/he would have done an STD test (i.e., urine testing for gonrrhea and chlamydia). In any case, non-STD urinary tract infection (UTI, also called "cystitis") is rare in men your age. And if you had that, your urinalysis would be abnormal.
If your urinary discomfort continues, return to your doctor and this time tell the full story. But in the meantime, there is no serous worry about an STD in this situation.
Best wishes-- HHH, MD
i recieved the oral by the way and im 22 years old
hi doctor i also remembered once or twice my eye lids have become red however at this point that isnt a problem. also ive had like mucous and a cough for a couple of weeks
hi doctor thankyou for your promt response just one last quick question ive been ill since the incident like a chest infection is there any chance i could of got HIV?
No. HIV is rarely if ever transmitted by oral sex, and early HIV infections do not cause symptoms like a chest cold.