AS I said before, this does not sound like epididymitis, at all.
1.does testicle and epididymis hurt constantly and does pain increase with epididymitis?
Yes, the pain is contstant and tend to increase over time with bacterial epididymititis.
2. Is there always discharge from sti related epididymitis.
Not always but typically.
3. Is the testicle swelling always noticeable enough where you could not miss it.
Yes. The swelling may be the testis or the epididymis
4. does anxiety really produce pain seems almost impossible
Anxiety can cause testicular discomfort which comes and goes.
5. is it possible for my symptoms to resolve themselves over time?
Hard to say. You do not know what is causeing yoru discomfort. It is most unlikely that this is an STI but there are other urological problems which might be causing your symptoms. You may want to see a urologist to be sure. EWH
I am not very good at this , this will be last try I promise.
1.does testicle and epididymis hurt constantly and does pain increase with epididymitis?
2. Is there always discharge from sti related epididymitis.
3. Is the testicle swelling always noticeable enough where you could not miss it.
4. does anxiety really produce pain seems almost impossible
5. is it possible for my symptoms to resolve themselves over time?
Thank You
so just it would be unusual for symptoms of epididymitis to show up
5 months later? Pain comes and goes depending on position I am sitting in which seems odd. Is there always pain and swelling of the epididymis would it always be very tender if it was in fact epididymitis?
Welcome to the Forum. I'll be happy to address your questions. Let's start with the easy part- this is not epididymitis. As you point out with epididymitis the testicle would be swollen and tender to the touch. Further, it would be unusual (but not unheard of) to have epididymitis develop without some sort of urethritis (discharge or obvious burning on urination). It would also be unusual for it to have developed well before five months had passed.
Regarding your condom failure questions, if your condom had failed, it would have broken open in a way that would leave no doubt that it had failed. Condoms do not fail by leaking small amounts.
So, what could this be? You are of an age when prostate problems begin to occur for many men- this could be prostatitis or some other non-STI related prostate problem. My advice would be to discuss this with your doctor and to see if he/she thinks it appropriate to see a urologist. I would not worry about an STI however.
I hope these comments are helpful. EWH