Oh please, let's not play games. Read my comments. It is possible. EWH
It is possible to get it from an object as we discussed should i be concerned that she cheated on me and gave it to me , or is it within the realm to get it as discussed.
She would not definitetly get it but it would be likely. If you have lice, your wife should be treted as well as you. EWH
hypothetically speaking if I did have it , and had sex wife my wife would she definitley get it from me
Welcome to the Forum. Pubic lice can be transmitted by indirect contact through contact with contaminated bedclothes or another person’s clothing. It would be unusual to get pubic lice from contact with hotel bedclothes as most reputable hotels use clean bedclothes for each now resident. the bathing suit hypothesis would be unusual but is conceivable.
Your symptoms could be due to lice or they could be due to shaving itself. Shaving often leads to subsequent itching. the tiny white spots you mention could be pubic lice eggs (called "nits") whoever it would be best to see a clinician to be sure. Nits can be present even if you do not see the lice themselves.
I presume the lice you had in your family were head lice. Interestingly, it turns out that head lice are said not to cause pubic hair infections. The head lice attach to hairs on the head using a different sort of pinchers than pubic lice and as a result head lice can only attach to head hair and, conversely, pubic lice can only attach to pubic hair.
I hope these comments are helpful. I would suggest you ask a clinician familiar with the problem to take a look. If these are pubic lice, in addition to medication yourself you will need to take steps to clean all of your clothing, sheets, blankets, etc thoroughly. EWH