some help from the best

[scape16]

Hi Dr HHH, & Dr. Hook,
  Here are my questions and it may be a bit loaded so please bare with me and do what you to advise. Over the past 6 years ive been dating someone, recently we got engaged. Over the years I have done some stupid stuff.Ive hooked up with about 9 girls. And I would really like to get an idea of STD Risk of I had completely protected viginal sex with 4 girls (total 6 times total) 2 of the girls the condom broke and we stopped right away . and 1 girl unprotected lasted a few mins and stopped didn’t finished. 8 of the 9 gave me unprotected oral sex sometimes finishing sometimes stopped and did with hand. So in total I would say I had protected sex 1 time each with 4 girls and at risk with 3 (condom broke or unprotected) the rest was only oral. in early 2012 I was tested (blood work) for hiv, sys.chal.gon all negitive. Ive never seen any blisters or sores on my penis(trust me i look alot). and I always have unprotected sex with my soon to be wife. The only thing that she has had was a yeast infection (first time 2 -3 years ago a day or 2 after haveing long sex in hot shower) went to the doc got a urinalis (sp) and came back with bacteria in it,the doctor didnt do a really good physical  exam but the doc (she) said it sounded like a yeast infection and UTI gave her z pack and monistat 7 or 10 day she was fine she also complained of discharge. then maybe 1-2 years later this past year i believe she had one again not nearly as bad got monisat and felt better after 3 days. I just read so much about atypical herpes and I told my doc that. He said thats rare, he said if you have herpes or any STD you will have signs. Im just always worried about the herpes

[scape16]

Thanks Dr hook!

[Edward W Hook, MD]

yes.  EWH

[scape16]

is it safe to say all the other things (swollen glands in groin, buring,flu like symtoms) are only related if you see sores?

[Edward W Hook, MD]

The signs of genital herpes is the appearance of small uncomfortable blisters at a site of direct sexual contact.  The blisters appear within 14 days of sexual contact and typically break open to form shallow ulcers.  The sores heal without scarring.  EWH

[scape16]

And sorry one last thing can you clarify the symptoms of herpes: Like what is the the time frame Ive read so much 2-7 days 2-14days up to 21 days 31 days what is a safe number if you dont see sores or blisters

[scape16]

Thanks Dr Hook, Its been bothering me alot. And after the side effects from the levaquin ive been a nervous reck. Over all Single  1 time sex with 7 women would you say is safe. out of the 7, i had unprotected sex for a few mins and 2 of them the condom broke and we stopped.

[Edward W Hook, MD]

Welcome to the forum.  It sounds like you would like to focus my comments on herpes, and I will do that. Your risk of herpes from these exposures is low.   If you get cold sores (HSV-1), you have no meaningful risk of herpes from receipt of oral sex.  further, In the absence of lesions in your partners and with the fact the you have not developed sores, there is little likelihood that you acquired herpes.  I would not worry and see no need for testing. EWH

[scape16]

since my last exposure(20-21 days again) I got dianoisted with a sinus infection put me on levaquin-had horriable reaction to that no sleep, nervres in legs and hamstrings killing, I stopped that and put me on zpack. From all this i have told you how likely is it that herpes is invovled. Please help I know its loaded