Welcome to the forum and our little group.
I wasn't very sure about the vote, but I voted for help, hoping that
you meant members voting for offering you help.
Was the tummy tuck procedure itself uneventful?
Were you made aware of the possible risks?
And have you discussed these issues at any point after the surgery with any of the doctors?
There are many things you can do about fibromyalgia.
I'm not sure about any damage you may have sustained from the
tummy tuck, as I don't have enough details to go by.
Sex life s***s when you have substantial pain and a low libido
because of medications, the condition itself and now the possible added symptoms from the tummy tuck.
It must be frustrating going for a procedure for improvement (to look and feel sexier and more desirableand to take care of your seroma), only to find out
that things are actually worse.
Normally a seroma develops after surgery. What caused it in your case?
If your husband loves you, you have nothing to fear.
Just try to please him sexually whichever way is easiest for you,
without experiencing much discomfort. Oral sex might work for you(and for him lol!) better.
I hope you're OK with me referring openly to these matters.
Then in due time you will feel better and hopefully your sex drive will return and your pain will better controlled.
Just do a search for IWILLDOTHIS, using medhelp's search engine, and it will bring you to a thread that I started a while back with many holistic and natural ways to deal better with Fibromyalgia.
Things will get better, just have faith and please don't torture yourself,
worrying about things you can't do much about, but be open to do things that will make a difference.
Please post again soon!