2012515 tn?1353875525

Sad Praises....Why?

Hello to All,
Just wanted to share with you all the news as to why I've not been present lately and posting.
Some of you know from my PM(private msg) that my mother went in for back surgery Sept.19 and the back surg.went as it should but she had complications due to her sick weak lungs,COPD,Diabetes and heart problems however her heart doc thought she could handle it and so did her pulmonary.

Well she could not! She was in the hospital until Oct.18th jin ICU until the Good Lord decided to take her home and to not allow her to struggle,suffer and be in pain any longer.
I stayed at the hospital with her for the last 8 days.  My only regret is that I did not go sooner for her surgery but at that time the Lord did not prompt me, but my mom would ask,When are you coming?The last time was,When will you be here?  She knew she was going home before she was put on the life support!

I'm glad she is no longer suffering and that she is in a much better place, but I'm so sad and I miss her soooomuch!

I thank you all for the prayers.  I felt them and know that they carried me as I slept only12 hrs.

I got home yesterday eve. and my family and I will be leaving this eve. to be back in time for memorial services. My dad and I did all the arrangements before I came home. I love and miss her so much!!!

Well,Hugs and blessings to all and I will be back in a few days.
Tammy:)    oxoxoxoxo

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2012515 tn?1353875525
I'm sincerely grateful to all of you for your sweet condolences, words of encouragement and prayers.
I know she is all around us and I will get to see her one day but, I wished I would of got there sooner before she was put on life support! People have said she could hear me and knew I was there as I was by her side for as long as allowed other than the kickout times between shift change.

She was just 64! The Lord needed her more than we did,I guess!

Niko,I hope it has gotten easier for you and the sadness has eased up.I'm asking this because even though I know my mom is in a better place I am still truly overwhelmed by it all.  I did look at the beautiful "Pass On"video on youtube a few months ago but I guess I didn't think it would hit home so soon.:(

Thanks again to you ALL!  Many hugs and blessings to each of you.
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Oh I was going to message you today, as I was worried i hadnt seen you posting hun. So sorry for your loss but your mum will always be with you, and like you said, now she is at peace. Big huge hugs. Mariaxxxx
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My thoughts, prayers and sympathies are with you and your family.

I am so sorry for your loss. I too beleive that your Mom will always be with you!

Love Jenny
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Tammy, this year has been a challenging year for most of us.

As difficult as it is to go through the loss of a loved one, it is also
very important for us to understand that this is a "passing on" to a much
Higher and Sacred form of Life.
There are no words that can describe the Glory and the Joy of Spirit Life.

As you know Tammy, my younger Brother passed on in January and my Mom in May.
  In quiet contemplation, I reviewed the Gifts that they both left me with, during their time in this world, thanking our Creator for making this possible.

We never really die, just our bodies do, and as the young poet Michael Lee
  says in his poem we simply Pass On.
"Pass On" is the title of his poem.
He recites this in a wonderful way and it's on YouTube if you want to listen to it (if you haven't listened to it yet).
I have listened to it about 20 times!

Your Mom is ALWAYS going to be around!
Let your whole family be comforted with this thought, for she will be your Spirit Guide, showing you the Light, so that all your Lives will abide in  
Peace and Love!
God Bless you and all your family!
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I am so sorry to hear that about your mom. I feel your heartbreak. My nana had brain cancer when she was dxs we were suppose to have here around for a few more years, but The Lord called her home only two months later.

I regret not going to see her sooner I thought I had time. Two days before she passed I finally made it to see her. I am grateful she didn't have to suffer like the doctors expected. I know The Lord called her home.

I am praying for you and your family. Remember the good times and what love ya have.  May The Lord be with ya.

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