I don't drink or smoke i never have in my life and i don't want to become pregnant again just yet and i would have to say im more stressed about my husband keeping a job rather than my own job
Sorry to have to ask this: What about your consumption of alcohol, tobacco or illicit drugs like cannabis or cocaine. Are you stressed due to child minding and other work? Do you fear another pregnancy?
No im not on BC or any other meds and my son is about to be 1
If you are early post-partum, like your baby is only a few weeks old, then loss of libido would not be at all unusual. If this is not your situation however then one needs to look for other causes for your lack of sex drive. Are you on any medication like the BC pill, Marina Coil or antidepressants/sedatives? You will need to get this sorted because it may otherwise put a little strain on your marriage.