37 year old male virgin seeks advice

[Lavalamp77]

So, the title says it all really. There are many reasons for this, mostly due to self conciousness but with good reason. When I was in my teens I had horrendous acne and when I hit my 20s it turned out I also had hidradenitis suppurativa, a nasty condition that gives you abscesses in the most unfortunate of areas ! Luckily, although there is no cure for this, I have been relatively abscess free for a year or so. Happy days you may well think.. but there is another problem pertaining to reasons for my virginity, I also think I have a short frenulum breve after doing a bit of research, which means when erect it is painful to pull the foreskin back over the glans. Thus I believe sex would be painful even if I got in to the situation where I'd be confident enough to date. There is an option of surgery for this but then there is the obvious problem of who the hell would want to date a 37 year old virgin ! So basically I am wondering if there is any point in having the surgery and going through the embarrassment of it all if I never end up managing to get my end away anyway.
So if anyone has had the surgery and can say how it went or anyone with advice about the virgin issue would be much appreciated. Life's not a rehearsal and I've not much time left to find someone and start a family.

[Dalubaba]

It is never too late to make effort to improve our self. We will make mistakes and we need to handle them positive attitude to rectify them. I am sure you will win over your problems.

[Lavalamp77]

Thankyou so much, what you say makes sense. I don't know why I waited so long to sort this out. I'll remember what you said and try to overcome my worries about it on my path to happyness.

[Dalubaba]

It is prudence you require not the courage.There is no shame in resolving sexual problem. They are the part of life.Please go ahead.

[Lavalamp77]

Thankyou for the reply. If I can find the courage I will go and see my doctor about it and go from there.